Ok women so you are fully
vested in your relationships in marriage, family, and your love crush. Climb
down from your post of clinging vine where everyone expects you to conform to
their thoughts, opinions, concepts, and ways of doing things. Refuse to be a
coat and hat rack where others throw their junk and all their personal problems on
you. In all actuality, these people treat you like they treat God. They go to
Him with problems but do not intend to allow an All-Knowing God to correct the
matter. Instead, Dump Loaders bring their trash to you for sorting into the
correct pile. In 2019, put up your "Out of Order” sign and send them to
God where they should have gone in the first place.
Married women let this be the year that you stop focusing on how
increditably handsome, hot, and fine your husband is; and tell him to “Man up”
to his responsibilities. Not all men understand what it means for a wife to be
submissive to her husband. I know there are varying opinions with men
concerning the definition of submission, but for sure, it does not mean
servant. Does your husband see you as equal in the marriage does your opinion
matter, if you have no income does your input carry any weight? A woman's soul
has the same value as a man’s soul.
When I was a little girl, I had an Uncle that served in World War
I. He had no respect for his wife and he treated her like a child. His wife was
actually treated like a slave. My Aunt called her husband Papa because that is
how she saw him and not as a husband. My Uncle never let my Aunt have an
opinion, he made choices for her and told her what she did and did not need.
Every word she spoke was overridden with his opinions and she had very low
self-esteem. None of her desires was important and from what I could see, it
was a loveless marriage. God gave both man and woman a voice and He listens to
both and all their thoughts and opinions matter to Him. Married women, the next
time your husband calls you out of another room to pass him a glass of water,
remember what submissive is not.
1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them
according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel,
and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not
hindered.
Mary Adger
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